Those damn relationships...

So I have been thinking.. Our brains tell us it is a good idea to become more with eachother..Although our hearts tell us that we should wait and take it slow. When you like someone and they like you back your brain say's "Hey that person likes you! You need to be in a relationship with that person just to be happy. Don't take it slow and get to know the person, just jump right in and realize later on who the person really is!" Your brain gets in the way of what your heart is trying to tell you, which is "Yes that person likes you and you like that person, but really just take it slow. Get to know the person more. Just because you both like eachother doesn't mean you need to jump right in. If you jump in right now you will learn stuff about that person that you don't like."In reality, you don't need to jump right into a relationship. You may think you need to be in a relationship in order to be happy but really you don't. When you think you need to be in a relationship to be happy you are listening to your brain. Since you are just listening to your brain ou aren't listening to what your heart has to say. Your heart tells you that you don't need to be in a relationship in order to be happy. The best relationships to have with someone is friendship, and having a good relationship with your family. So letting your brain talk louder than your heart can lead you to having your feelings crushed.